When something
bad happens to you, isn't it nice to be able to blame somebody
or something other than yourself? Spanish has provided us
an elegant and acceptable way to do this in almost every occasion
when you goof up.
Instead of saying: "I lost my keys." You use
the reflexive verb, and let the keys lose themselves, with you
as the victim. "Se me perdieron las llaves."
Which make you feel somewhat better about it than if you had
said: "Perdí mis llaves."
If you are driving at night in a romantically remote area,
this one could come in handy: "Lo siento Cindy, pero
se nos acabó la gasolina." (The gas ran out on us.)
Or, after particularly shameful afternoon at Buck Hill, you
could explain the cast on your leg like this: "¿El
enyesado? Se me quebró la pierna ayer." (The
leg broke itself on me.) Which probably won't help your
image, but it feels somewhat better than that kid on a snowboard
that you plowed over.
There is a colorful verb that is used for forgetting things.
It is the same root as the English word "obliterate."
When you forget to send the check, you can tell them:
"¿Dónde está el cheque? pues, er, uh, se me
olvidó mandárselo. Voy a enviárselo mañana."
(sending it to you obliterated itself in my memory.)
Similar to GUSTAR, this structure causes problems because the
person appears only in the indirect object pronoun, and the
reflexive pronoun SE is ALWAYS used in front. The verb
ending is always in the third person singular or plural.
Se me cayeron los pantalones. (My pants fell down on
me.) caersele = to drop
Se le cayó el vaso a Juliana. (Juliana dropped
the glass.)
Parece que se te ha muerto tu mejor amigo. (It
looks like your best friend died on you.)
morirsele to die on somebody.
Sus padres se les murieron. Ahora son huérfanos. (Their
parents died on them. Now they are orphans.)
This is a fun structure to learn and practice. Try it
yourself.
Try to translate these. Do not use
SER, ESTAR or TENER unless necessary. Avoid PONERSE to
help you increase your vocabulary. Also try to include
indirect object pronouns whenever possible, and the Se for unplanned
occurrences.